Saturday, July 6, 2013

Scatterlings- the book for expats from Southern Africa is now out !


I'm delighted to announce that ...

'Scatterlings- A Tapestry of Afri-Expat Tales' 

has been released.

Please find more info on the following links ! -  The Book's Face Book Site.

Dear Everyone.... Finally the website linked to PAYPAL has been published. 
The costs in the website are for the book (- postage still needs to be added - depending on where you live.) 
This rate is for the 1st 100 books ordered...

Friday, June 14, 2013

About the book 'Scatterlings' for migrants from Southern Africa

I grew up on a farm on the Lesotho border  - where I visually imbibed
 the rich textures, dramatic cloud formations, golden wheat fields
 and dolomite 'koppies' as my childhood vista. 

This was juxtaposed against the routine of boarding school in a small 
Freestate town.

In my adult life I hailed from Hilton -South Africa and now reside in 
Auckland  - New Zealand- a large sprawling city with sea views in almost 
every direction.

I spent the last 18 months working on my book - which I believe will be 
beneficial for South Africans at home and abroad as emigration impacts 
our lives whether we leave SA or stay at home and lose loved ones to
I see us as the 'shrapnelled society" - Within the book I chronicle my 
early  years as a farm child through to adulthood in South Africa followed
 by my  'Aha Moment' to emigrate.  

Psychological knowledge and skills are used to provide a Process
 section as a facilitation tool for migrants who go through stages of grief 
and adaptation. 

Others' stories are blended into the book, including children's tales 
and perceptions. Those who share their stories, have hailed from 
Rhodesia and South Africa and have settled in places like Peru, 
New Zealand, Australia, Saudi Arabia, Qatar, England, Canada, USA 
and Kenya.

A South African time line from Khoi Khoi to current includes a 
political/historical background plus articles by well known SA writers, 
political figure heads and projectionists- which enhances the readers 
understanding of the complexity of the SA story.
The book concludes with poetry about Africa, some favourite 
traditional recipes and an epilogue.

My Bio- I'm passionate about humanity and worked with 
underprivileged and disabled children in South Africa for many years.

I'm a special needs' teacher, expressive therapist and psychologist, 
currently practicing as an educational psychologist in Auckland. 
I'm a freelance writer and since emigrating 5 years ago, have taken
 up the mantle as an advocate for the migrant population whom I 
support and assist during their complex transition, adaptation and 
acculturation. I see my book as part of my own healing journey; 
and in the tapestry, woven with others' stories, others and I have 
found solace and strength through connectivity and identification.

My wish is that anyone who reads this book finds strength and healing 
through its contents... Namaste


Saturday, June 8, 2013

Madiba update

Media outside Mandela hospital

Pretoria - Media were stationed outside a Pretoria hospital on Saturday morning after the presidency announced former President Nelson Mandela was admitted in a "serious but stable" condition.
Photographers and journalists were monitoring cars entering and exiting the hospital.
There was no security apart from normal hospital guard stationed outside the building.
Early on Saturday morning presidency spokesperson Mac Maharaj said Mandela was admitted due to a recurring lung infection.
"This morning at about 1.30am his condition deteriorated and he was transferred to a Pretoria hospital," Maharaj said in a statement.
"He remains in a serious but stable condition."
Maharaj said doctors were doing everything they could to make Mandela "better and comfortable".
"President Jacob Zuma, on behalf of government and the nation, wishes Madiba a speedy recovery and requests the media and the public to respect the privacy of Madiba and his family," Maharaj said.

On April 6, Mandela was discharged from hospital after spending nine days receiving treatment for recurring lung problems. The Nobel Peace Prize laureate has suffered lung ailments before.

Sunday, June 2, 2013

Scatterlings- A Tapestry of Afri-Expat Tales

Exiting news !!!!!!!!!!!

Scatterlings- A Tapestry of Afr-Expat Tales   will be out soon :)

Watch this space re the launch >>>

Thanks to all the amazing contributors- without you there would be no book !

You have made it this rich Tapestry :)

Where to start ?  About  the book's content maybe...

I'm a SA born and bred, passionate about my country and its people.

I worked in SA much of my life as a teacher and then a Principal of special needs children who are/ were disadvantaged and mostly from impoverished backgrounds.

I'm a freelance writer, a psychologist. - an expat and a humanitarian. 

Like many people, we have very sadly and reluctantly left SA due to the untenable levels of crime, the incompetent leadership of the governing party, the disintegration of services, the unknown future and the limited opportunities for future generations.

I went through the deep grief and mourning process when we emigrated in 2008, as we have children and grand children in both SA and NZ. SA is what I refer to as a 'shrapnelled society...'

It's not easy to emigrate at the age of 58, and my spouse was then 62. One leaves one's entire life's history and footprint behind; one's roots and one's identity; all that is familiar and that defines one's self.

My book chronicles the journey, the epiphany and to what I allude to as the 'metaphorical death' and 'rebirth' as a migrant.

I share aspects of my carefree childhood on a Freestate farm, about my slow conscientising that all is not right due to the separatist existence of the various cultures and the dawning of awareness of the heinous apartheid regime, coupled with a sense of fear and of suppression, as well as guilt for not being adequately oppositional...

I provide a Support Process regarding adaptation and healing from the grief of migration and from the traumas of SA life, in which many experience PTSD and high anxiety, fear, stress and depression, both during the regime and after - as well as pre- and post- migration.

In the wonderfully rich Tapestry section I share other people's stories; Folk from Zim and SA now spread around the globe; abroad and those returned home or who have opted to never leave.

I have an historical/political time line section in the book from Khoi Khoi to current and conclude with all time favourite SA recipes and some poems on Immigration.

Within the time line section one will find book reviews and articles form the media which give an outline of data re SA over the past few years.

My book concludes with the fact that no one can decide for one if to stay or leave and that those who leave always hold a piece of Africa in their souls. Its a very personal choice and there are pros and cons to every choice we make in life. It also concludes offering hope that the future remains unknown and that only time will define where to from here for each and every person; also that we are in essence all interconnected whether far away or in Africa, -  in a way that defies time, space and distance through the eyes of a renowned quantum physicist.  >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Monday, March 18, 2013

Scatterlings- A Tapestry of Afri-Expat Tales

SCATTERLINGS >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Dear wonderful people (who have contributed to the book or supported and assisted me...)

I have re-submitted my book to the publishers this week, having done a bit of trimming and reducing and gaining consent from writers of published works etc.

I feel humbled and privileged to have so many notable, as well as regular people's work in my book and feel that I am merely a conduit.

No, I won't make a fortune out of the book and yes, if I do, you will come to the celebration!

What are the objectives of the book, you may ask ?

1. It was part of my personal healing as I went through the painful motions of migration and confronted my own metaphysical crisis.

2. In going through the journey, I felt that my research and engagement in the process could benefit others in the same predicament.

3. The more I wrote and learnt, the less I wrestled with myself and the more at peace I became about honouring my grief, about respecting individual choice; to stay in SA or to leave or to return... or to leave again ! My book chronicles such stories in it !

4. This made me ever more aware of the complexity of the migration story, the passion and power of the human spirit, the determination and resilience, as well as the collective pull that Africa holds for us all; regardless of where we are on this mortal plane.

5. It made me ever more acutely aware of the complexity of the Southern African legacy; the history, the politics, the pain, angst, brutality, bloodshed, greed, stupidity, inequity, confusion... and oh, the lessons to be learned, as well as the need for healing, forgiveness and solutions.

6. As I began to heal, my love for Africa returned and my anger and hurt diminished, although it still hurts and always will.

7. In writing my bit of the book and collating others' stories, I came to realise that we are all interconnected and all on a continuum from one extreme to the other; we are all fallible and human, full of human error, yet survivors. We are all Africans and we take that African spirit with us far and wide.

8. In writing/collating the book, I learned that in Africa, as with everywhere else, greed and entitlement and materialism is humanity's downfall and yet competition is what keeps humanity alive.

9. I have learnt how vulnerable we all are.

10. I have learnt to value the moment.

Thank you for being part of my journey !


Please also check my book blog- ScatterlingTales... :)

Sunday, March 10, 2013

Eve's Apples: A Touch of Africa in New Zealand

Eve's Apples: A Touch of Africa in New Zealand: Cape to Cairo Day in Auckland NZ Some folk leave Africa and that is that.... and others have a great need to kindle the African Spiri...

Saturday, March 9, 2013

A Touch of Africa in New Zealand

Cape to Cairo Day in Auckland NZ

Some folk leave Africa and that is that.... and others have a great need to kindle the African Spirit. It is such a powerful magnetic pull that Mama Africa has for us expats !

These are pics which depict the Africa Day in NZ  (March 2013) 

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And no... we haven't turned our Backs on you Africa !

We love you from down under here in NZ !!!